Many of us are always wondering how do all the couples who seem to fit so well together manage, and how we can be the most wanted girlfriend, as well as in your boyfriend’s eyes, his friends and family. Here are 10 ways of succeeding this ideal!
1. Don’t be a Nag!
There’s nothing that a guy hates more than his girl nagging all the time, for example: “ did you clean your dishes?” “Did you leave your coat on the floor?!”, “did you forget to call your mother?” etc.
Guys hate it when someone is going on and on about what they have to do, and eventually, they will get bored and leave unexpectedly or just give up the relationship because it is too tiring for him. Be more relaxed, and try to find a nicer way of asking him questions regarding his chores in the house or any other business, so that he does not feel like he’s being scolded all the time.
2. Learn to Love What He Loves
I’m not talking about pretending to absolutely adore the way Kobe Bryant plays, but try to put in a little effort to show your support in the activities he enjoys, whether it is about soccer, basketball, car racing, PSP playing or jogging. Seeing you engaging in his favorite activities will make him appreciate you more and he will definitely do the same for you! How do you feel about having him for example join you for a really long shopping spree that he usually refuses?
3. Surprise Him!
Nothing is more stressing than the thought of your relationship turning into a monotonous one, where routine leads the day. Therefore, go buy yourself some nice lingerie, garters, or a sexy dress and try to impress him by learning a sensual dance and perform it for him as a surprise. This will make you feel more confident in yourself and also give a boost of adrenaline to your daily life together. Plus, for guys, the fact that you want to make them want you is such a turn on!
4. Organize a Romantic Dinner
As you see in the movies, the moment of a romantic dinner, with candles lit, slow music, good music prepared by you and the atmosphere as if the relationship just started is quite an incentive! So why not try and apply it yourself? It is not hard to pull out such a romantic moment, away from the stress of your workplaces and which can spice things up a bit again. You can prepare his favorite dish, which will make him feel loved, but you can also try a new recipe, a delicacy that will thrill his senses. If you have a balcony, you can try after the dinner to have a glass of wine on the balcony, enjoying the view, the music in the background and the company.
5. Save for an Exotic Trip
Just imagine: you and your partner lost on a desert island, with exotic food, scenery, spa, pool, and breakfast by the ocean. What could be more perfect? You can try saving up money for a year and try to find a voucher for a trip on an island, and book your plane tickets in advance. You can keep it a secret and make it a gift to your loved one, or you can discuss it before and prepare for it ahead. Anyway, it definitely will be something you will both remember as one of your best memories together, far away from the turmoil of the city.
6. Take Dance Lessons Together
Most guys would surely pass on such an offer, as it is not that appealing to them having to learn how to dance with grace. But the key thing is, they do not have to do that, and instead, they actually get the chance to lead the woman in the dance and learn also how to conquer and dominate in an unique way. But taking dance courses together also will consolidate you as a team, and that is a great benefit. In addition to this, the next time you will go out, be sure that a lot of couples will be jealous on your dancing!
7. Go on a Picnic in your City!
Sometimes, you just want to get away from the hustle and bustle of the city, and you do not have a lot of free time to spend with your beloved. Therefore, the easiest way to have some fun and enjoy the outdoors is to grab a picnic basket, your iPods and head for one of the larger parks in your town or nearby. Spending some quiet time, just chatting and enjoying the fresh air will make you feel more relaxed and will make it a romantic date with the perfect girlfriend!
8. Don’t Criticize him too much!
I know that maybe in your mind, you have about a million things to criticize him about. For example, that he is leaving his socks on the floor, or that he has not washed the car, etc. Try not to overload him constantly with these kind of remarks, as it may become boring and annoying for him. Maybe you could try, for example putting down all the things that you both do in the house and stick the note somewhere visible, so he can see and check for himself if he has something left to do or not.
9. Learn to Adapt!
It can happen that sometimes your favorite table at the downtown restaurant is not free, or that there is not enough time to do all the planned activities in one day. Instead of starting to complain and probably blaming everything on him, try to take it easy and learn to adapt to any situation. It will show him that you are not a brat that wants things done in an instant, and that it can happen that plans change due to a series of factors.
10. Tell him how much you Care about him
Though they do not show it often, guys like to be told if they are loved, and they will really appreciate this, coming from their favorite person! So you can be spontaneous and tell him your feelings when he does not expect it, or wait for an intimate moment so you can make it more important! It is up to you, but let him know you adore him!
Got any inside stories to tell about you and your beaux? What about past relationships? What do you feel stopped working? How did that help you learn and grow? What kind of qualities are you looking for in a boyfriend? Let us know in the comment section below!